Just like it is with the film industry, every movie has a beginning, a middle and an end. Most of the times, the beginning is used to introduce the main characters and their goals while the middle's purpose is to have a series of events that increase the tension in the story. This is also where the characters change and grow as they deal with their conflicts.
In the end, the main conflict is resolved and the loose ends are tied up. What I've come to learn is that relationships in real life do not differ from those in movies... Every story begins on a specific date, with two main characters who start the story off as people who feel comfortable talking to each other, they click from either day or night one, and that click develops throughout into something stronger, something deeper, and just like every story in life, the middle part is reached, and that's where pain is felt, not the happiest part sadly. Nonetheless, it helps at least one of the main characters learn that life is too short to waste, in addition to many different things that mature him/her, but it would be no fun to state or read about those changes, because the things that change in the character(s) vary and fluctuate from one story to another, which is why, whether in real life or in a movie, seeing them with time will be more convincing than reading about them, as seeing makes it more persuasive for people to believe, and even better, more sincere...
Every story has a different timing, particularly between its different parts. If the middle part ends faster in one than it does in another, that does not mean that it lacks honesty. On the contrary, it means that the characters' feelings are so true that they've speeded that part of the story, because fast forwards are at times great healers, they make the movies reach their end, where problems are resolved and new happy beginnings are on the rise. For this reason, bitter experiences should not be dealt with resent, but rather with cautiousness and patience, so long as we do not prolong the period of dealing with those occurrences, because who knows, those trials may end up being nothing but bliss sent to us in camouflage.
keep up the good work xx
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